SECRET WOMEN’S BUSINESS – as told to Deborah Bennett  

I have a thing for hands when comes to men. I like them rough. I don’t like them pretty. Pretty hands are for women. A rough pair of hands shows me he’s willing to get dirty and it feels good to have rough hands running all over my body.

I love thinking about sex; it consumes my thoughts. I used to wonder if I was addicted to the eroticism of my fantasies, but now I know I’m as normal as the next woman.

Women have sexy thoughts all the time.

Women have sexy thoughts all the time. If a woman tells you she doesn’t, she’s lying. We think about sex just as much as men do, but a lot of women are too shy to speak about it.

Sometimes when I am having a conversation with an attractive man I’ve just met, I find myself fantasizing about him, imagining what it would be like to feel him against my lips, touching my skin or thrusting deep inside me.

I failed my diving writing exam because my instructor was too hot and I couldn’t stop staring at his butt as he wrote on the board. I found myself lost in a fantasy of us together in the water, naked. I couldn’t answer any of the questions he asked. It was so embarrassing.

Many of my girlfriends have boyfriends and they are faithful to them in body but not in mind; they all masturbate thinking about other men. I am no different.

It feels good to have rough hands running all over my body

Having said that, when I’ve had sex with a really hot guy, I will think about him non-stop until I can have him again. I think about his face, his mouth, his chest, and his hands, especially if they are rough hands.